watering
Just instructing them on the surface level rarely works, at least not long term. For them to internalize something, to take it to root in their life, they must have proper instruction that reaches down deep. When they are young, this is needed more often, as with newly planted plants. As they establish however, watering plants once a week is sufficient. We can see the parallel in our children. As they grow, they do not need the constant reminders they needed when they were younger. However, as with plants, over-watering can also cause damage and stunted growth.
I have found this to be true in both experiences-in gardening and in raising my kids. I definitely have a tendency to over-water. It is recommended that once plants are established, watering in the morning or evening is best. This is to prevent the heat of the day from causing evaporation. I can see how this fits into our routine nicely. After a long day in the heat of life, coming together as a family is refreshing. But only when I don’t tend to drown them with my over-watering techniques. As with plants, allowing them to sit too long in too much water will only cause fungus to germinate and thrive.
Perhaps beginning and ending the day with quietness and refreshing words would be an added help in allowing our children to grow into the healthy plants they are destined to be.
